The best for kids is not to let them have the best. Moderation and average breed appreciation. When kids indulge in constant luxuries, luxurious pampering will be regarded as norms. Luxury will then rob off the innocence joy of simplicity of life from kids.
For example for a cup of hot beverage like hot chocolate or latte, to enjoy it is to have it in an expensive joint like Starbucks, Coffee Bean or maybe an upscale cafe but never in an open stall. I have come across teenagers who refused to go out with friends with non-designer jeans.
However, luxury is relative. Some view Mercedes Benz as a common car while others might view it as a luxury. It is somewhat educational to guide kids to differentiate luxury from the average base on the financial standing of the family. On the other hand, it will be much much more beneficial if kids are able to appreciate simplicity from the sophistication.
Occasional luxury can do wonders in building a close and meaning family ties. Constant indulgence in luxury will bring upon more harm than good for a kid. Do you agree? Please comment...
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Yes I agree , teacher . Constant indulgence in luxury will only make the people around that person envy and such cases as 'stealing' will occur .. Anyways , young children shouldn't get things that are expensive that can be bought 70% cheaper with a good quality , for example shirts and jeans. This will only spoil the child's life and sooner or later the child will file for bankruptcy...unless...if he has regained his consciousness regarding his or her's spending spree.
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